Actually, SantaCon is already here all day and well into the night. Every second weekend in December, SantaCon seems to take place on Saturday in major cities across the U.S. and other places in the world. Basically, everyone dresses up as Santa Claus or some other Christmas-themed character and goes out to make revelry in the streets. Since you already know that I’m feeling “Scrooge-esque” at the moment, I didn’t make any major efforts to get right up in people’s faces and take pictures. I usually do, but decided to sit back this afternoon and simply film what was in my immediate vicinity.
SantaCon is Coming to Town
Payback
The boys apparently had quite an evening of drinking at the holiday dinner last night ’cause M. didn’t crawl in until after 10:00 a.m. and A. followed shortly thereafter. “Someone” in the office told me that M. had actually left the dinner or ensuing bar early to “help a friend.” Some girl allegedly sent him a text that she was at a bar and everyone was lame. She needed M. to rescue her as in “Help,” and “SOS!” We’ll just chalk that up to a booty call, shall we?! I don’t know what was up with A. Whenever I’ve been out with him, he can drink for hours and not look or act affected in the slightest (he’s half Irish, after all!). On the contrary, after an evening of drinking, he still has the most impeccable manners, which always impress me about him. So while those 2 were still struggling to make it into the office, I thought I’d mess with their phones! I raised the volume from about 2 to 10, as well as changing the ring tone to that of a drum being banged. When they finally made it in, I hid on the other side of the office and prank called them while trying not to laugh. They weren’t very amused, but it put ME in a good mood!
Hawaii Photo Journey
Meant to show you a few photos from my latest trip.
Bah! Humbug!
The holiday season has been here for awhile, but my holiday spirit disappeared about 10 years ago. When I lived in L.A., Christmas was my favorite holiday. I loved shopping, wrapping the presents, selecting and mailing the cards, decorating the tree, listening to Christmas music and watching other’s open their presents. The tree had to be a REAL tree, too, because the smell of the fresh pine added to the feeling of Christmas. I would decorate the doors to look like Christmas presents, hang wreaths and light candles. I would put bells and ribbons on my Chow Chows. Upon first moving to San Francisco, I still celebrated, probably up until right after my divorce. The last time there was a Christmas tree in this apartment was around 2004. What happened? I’m not really sure. Living in San Francisco has seemed to drain all of the joy out of my life. Now I shop throughout the year for presents in order to avoid that last minute Christmas rush. More than likely, presents will be thrown into a gift bag rather than actually wrapping them. I seldom mail Christmas cards these days.
Honestly, this last trip to Hawaii made me realize that Honolulu probably has more Christmas decorations up than San Francisco does! It made me feel a little Christmas-y while I was there, delivering Christmas presents to several friends. Last year I was in New Orleans during Christmas and that lifted my spirits, too.
Then again, this afternoon was our company-wide holiday party. There are 3 or 4 different divisions of our company spread out over two floors. In December, we have a tree (yes, a REAL one) and either have a potluck or have food catered in or both. There’s also a white elephant gift exchange. Truthfully, I haven’t participated in about 12 years. Today was no exception!
Tonight is my group’s holiday dinner at a new, trendy restaurant called Cavalier. My RSVP to the E-mail sent out a few weeks ago said that I wouldn’t be attending. The office manager asked me again yesterday, just to be sure. Today the female attorney and a few other people tried to convince me to go, but to no avail. I don’t want to sit around eating dinner and having drinks with a group of people, most of whom I don’t actually like or even respect. It’s a farce and a waste of time.
People keep sending me E-mails, texts and messages on FB suggesting that we go out for drinks, dinner, a movie or something. I haven’t responded to the vast majority of them. My level of feeling social is at an all-time low. I actually WANTED to see some people in Hawaii, but didn’t get to. Here, I really don’t care. We can hang out any time of the year, but I don’t want to be around people or even interact with them in any way for awhile.
A small part of me is trying to talk myself into getting a “half” tree and putting it on the Chinese table in the entryway, though. Since both of the boys (yes, my two male roomies are in their early 20’s, too) will be gone for 2 weeks over Christmas and New Year’s, I’ve even thought about going all out and baking cookies, cakes and such. Of course, I’m not a huge fan of most baked goods, so I wouldn’t actually eat them myself, but hand them out to the neighbors or my “boys” at work. It’s just a thought at this point. So I guess my holiday spirit isn’t completely dead, but… it doesn’t involve interacting much with other people! (Now if I only had a doggie to dress up in a Santa Claus suit, then I might be able to get the full holiday spirit going! So if you have a spare dog/puppy laying around, please send him/her my way!)
Pau
In Hawaiian, pau means the end or to finish. My mini Hawaiian vacation is over and I’m back in the land of the pale, so it seems appropriate for this post.
Without going into any great detail about the trip, let’s break it down like this.
Cons: My arriving flight was delayed, my plan to take photos of people jumping off of the rock at Waimea Beach was foiled due to the fact that the waves were too dangerous and no one was allowed to jump, my watch broke on the second day, my slippers broke when I was out walking around and I had to buy another pair (although there were 2 more pairs in my hotel room), there was a crying baby in the seat in front of me on the return flight, my Filipino friend couldn’t meet for dinner because something had happened in regards to her grandson..
Pros: There was no sign of rain until the last day, I got to eat at Zippy’s TWICE, I made a few new friends, I went to a couple of new places, my cousin gave me the lowdown on who half of my relatives are that I have no clue about, I managed to finish the required shopping for my friends even with my hangover, I got TSA Pre-Check on both my arriving and departing flights.
With all of that, and although a previous post said that I never tire of Hawaii, it might be time to give it a break. My two former breaks from Hawaii lasted quite awhile; once for 5 years and once for 8 years! As with Bali, I need to expand my horizons. This creature of habit needs a new challenge. Is the dream over temporarily (or permanently)? I could always hit up South Beach, Key West, the Caribbean or Cancun. Any suggestions for a vagabond from my travel peeps?
The Boys
I work as a legal administrative assistant at a finance company, but I sit near the financial analysts rather than the other admins because one of them talks to herself, the other one talks to her husband on the phone all day and the third one talks to her kids on the phone all day. I can’t concentrate with all of that B.S. going on. Thus, I chose to sit near the financial analysts – 3 cute, fresh-faced guys in their early 20’s. Actually, one of them I don’t know very well as he recently transferred here from L.A. As for the other 2, we’re always teasing each other and occasionally going out for drinks together. We also share tea and ethnic foods frequently. They’re sort of like my brothers, although I think both of those 2 have a little crush on me. So this morning, after my flight landed and I was feeling sad, then grumpy, one of the guys was trying to joke with me. I snapped at him and he was really taken aback. I almost apologized, but he apologized first. He said that he could tell I wasn’t in a good mood (I’m not one to hide that, as anyone who REALLY knows me, knows!). The rest of the afternoon went by in silence. As I packed up my things to leave, the one I’d initially yelled at said quietly as I walked by “I hope you feel better; go home and get some rest.” I thanked him, but decided to call those 2 out on something. “By the way, who keeps messing with my phone every time I’m on vacation – changing my ring tone and lowering the volume? Also, who put that ridiculous chair in my cubicle blocking the entrance?” It was deathly quiet. I was standing right where both of their cubicles meet and witnessed their eyes get a little big as they tried to exchange furtive glances over the cubicle wall, which was too high, anyway. “What’s with the silence, guys?!” They sort of smirked and accused my boss of doing it. Let me assure you, my main boss has no idea how to change the ring tone on his own phone, much less mine! I explained to the guys that my phone rarely rings, anyway (since everyone knows I don’t answer), so it couldn’t possibly be that annoying when I’m out of the office. Their rationale was… if a tree falls in the woods and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?! So… if I’m not in the office and I’m not around to know how much my phone rings, does it ring off the wall? Apparently yes!
Is It Monday Already?!
You got me – I got nothing! I’m not exactly prepared. I realize that I didn’t even bother to post anything last Monday for Musical Monday. As for today, I just finished downing a bottle of prosecco with a friend and I’m riding high knowing that I’m off to Hawaii in a few days and only good things are waiting for me there!
So I’ll go with Britney tonight. If you want something, you’re gonna’ have to work for it (Bitch)! And here’s a photo from this evening.
Happy Thanksgiving!
In all honesty, Thanksgiving is my second least favorite American holiday, after Halloween. While everyone else may have memories of friends and family getting together sitting around the dinner table enjoying a fabulous feast and interesting banter, mine are nothing like that. My family memories consist of everyone getting together, eating, arguing, laying around watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade, followed by hours of football, then going to sleep. That was as festive as the weekend got, since there would be more disagreements and arguing throughout the remainder of the 4-day weekend. When I lived at home (and the few times that I visited after moving to Los Angeles), I spent much of the weekend hiding out in a bedroom while drunken arguments raged in the rest of the house.
My favorite memories of Thanksgiving are actually of a couple spent in Los Angeles. One year there was an “orphan” Thanksgiving for those of us who didn’t have family anywhere near or couldn’t afford to travel. It was basically a pot luck held in the recreation room of someone’s apartment building. The mood was happy, though; no pressure at all. On another Thanksgiving, an acquaintance of mine was out of work. He told another guy, a mutual friend of ours, that if the other guy and I would spring for the groceries, he’d make the entire Thanksgiving dinner for us; we could just wait at home and he’d call us and let us know when dinner was ready.
In reality, I had a couple of nice Thanksgivings in San Francisco, but they were the ones where I was either dating my French ex-husband or married to him. He was always in charge of the turkey, albeit with some input from me (baste it with white wine and butter, please!). I would make some of the side dishes. One Thanksgiving was held at his apartment with his French friends; a few more were held at our apartment (once we were married) and we invited lots of people. In fact, one year we made two turkeys in order to feed everyone. Of course, there was food for days afterwards. Once we took leftover turkey, dressing, salad, pie and plastic cutlery, put them in paper bags and handed them out to homeless people over the days following Thanksgiving. Not only did we NOT need to eat all of that food ourselves, but it didn’t go to waste.
My past two Thanksgivings weren’t spent in San Francisco at all. Two years ago, I arrived in Venice, Italy late on Thanksgiving morning. I ate pasta for lunch; had veal parmesan and wine for dinner; then attended a performance of operatic arias performed at a beautiful old church. It wasn’t particularly Thanksgiving-y, but I was happy. Last year I spent Thanksgiving in another non-traditional place – Las Vegas. A friend joined me from Los Angeles. On Thanksgiving Day we shopped at the outlet mall, had lunch at an Italian restaurant, did the gondola ride at The Venetian, drank here and there throughout the day and ended with dinner at Emeril’s Delmonico. Once again, not exactly traditional, but a good time.
Although I’m not a huge fan of Thanksgiving, there are things to be thankful for in my life. I’m thankful for having a steady job with good benefits. I’m thankful for my health and rarely getting sick. I’m thankful for the many travel opportunities in the past, as well as the future ones. I’m thankful for being the “mommy” of two beautiful Chow Chows years ago, who gave me immense happiness. I’m thankful for the few that have truly and deeply loved me. Right now, I’m thankful that you’re reading this blog! Now go enjoy your meal and make some memories!
My Last Full Day in Hanoi
Tuesday was my last full day in Hanoi, yet I still wasn’t that interested in seeing the sights or dealing with any more taxi drivers. Believe it or not, after breakfast, I spent a few hours back in my room! Which reminds me, I’d like to comment on the breakfast at Art Boutique Hotel. There was tea, coffee, fruit juice and milk to drink. One could eat off of either the Western menu (omelettes and such) or the Vietnamese menu (pho and the like). Their breakfast buffet also had cereal, fresh passionfruit, charcuterie, miniature pork and/or beef Vietnamese sausages, toast, dragonfruit, watermelon and pineapple. I’m probably forgetting something, but it was a bountiful breakfast spread.
When I finally ventured back out in the world of hectic Hanoi, my first mission was to peruse the street filled with jewelry shops. Each shop seemed to have about half silver and half gold, but 22K gold, not 14K. They took cash only. Had I known that before, I would have used my ATM/Visa card to pay for meals and other things more, saving my cash for the jewelry! I only bought one thing – a nice size star ruby ring set simply in 22K gold. The price was good for the size and quality, though, when compared to the U.S. A few doors down from that jewelry store was a lacquer shop. Although most of the same things could probably be found right here in San Francisco’s Chinatown, I indulged myself a bit. The shop owner was so happy to be making a sale that he threw in a few sauce dishes for free. Since he was being uncommonly friendly, I asked him what the regular price would be for an hour’s cyclo ride in Hanoi. He said 150,000 and even hailed a cyclo driver for me. The cyclo driver was an older man who I was worried might not make it very far! He was huffing and puffing his way through the Old Quarter as I took pictures and made videos. At some point, I mentioned wanting to see Hoan Kiem Lake. When we got to the lake, he said that the ride was over, even though it had barely been 45 minutes and, most certainly, NOT an hour. He also begged for more money than the 150,000 dong because he “needed a beer.” If anyone needed a beer, it would have to be ME after all the B.S. I encountered in Hanoi! Since he’d dropped me off near some temple at the lake, I proceeded to get out and take pictures. Many couples were having their engagement photos taken there by professional photographers that day, so we others aimed our cameras at the subjects as well. There were also models having their photos taken, so I got a few of those, too. All the vendors around the lake were selling those pop-up cards! After having bought 8 in Hoi An, I didn’t think it necessary to buy more, so didn’t even check to see what they were hawking them for. On my way back to the hotel, I came upon another lacquer store with a few different items. I picked up a few more things, went back to the hotel and, once again, stayed in for the night.
After breakfast on Wednesday, I went up to my room to pack. One of the hotel employees, T., called my room. Although she wasn’t working until that afternoon, she wanted to make up to me the bad time I’d been having in Hanoi. She said that she’d be by at 10:00 a.m. to take me for coffee/tea, then lunch. That was very sweet of her. She picked me up on her motorbike and took me to Align Cafe, a two story coffee house with nice, large spaces. While she had coffee, I had some fruity, girly pink drink! Her friend, V., joined us awhile later. Both of them spoke English well; T. had been in the U.S. before, having studied for a year at U.C., Berkeley, as well as living half of that time at the Hotel Triton in San Francisco! V. had never been to the U.S., but seemed to speak English well from his interaction with tourists at the hotel he works at. While they decided where to go for lunch, I ran around taking some photos. They ended up taking me to Quan An Ngon, which was one that was on my list. It’s a huge restaurant with “food stalls” from all areas of Vietnam. They shared a rice dish, I had mi quang and the 3 of us shared spring rolls. It was a pleasant afternoon, which certainly did make me feel better about the less-than-pleasant time I’d been having in Hanoi. They dropped me back at the hotel via taxi, I gathered my luggage, waited for my driver and was off to the airport.
So… in conclusion, I would say this. In all honesty, Vietnam was not one of my favorite travel destinations. Unfortunately for me, it rained or was overcast most of my time there. I didn’t like being ripped off by taxi drivers in Hanoi, didn’t like being harassed by vendors in Hoi An and found that, in general, people were not that friendly and preferred not to have their picture taken. On the pro side, it’s very affordable, the food was incredible and all of my hotels were great. I will probably go again, within a year or two, mainly to Hoi An to have more clothing and shoes made. If I spend more time in Hanoi, at least I’ll know what to expect.




















