Oh, those men on the dating websites who must not have had a date in quite some time! They’ve nothing better to do than write nasty messages to me because they don’t like my profile. I’ve promised to post most, if not all, of their smarmy messages, though, so here goes another one.
This is from RicBuck53 who’s 62 & from Modesto, CA:
“Your subpar experience with men at OKC is your fault. Some reasonably intelligent and normal women have no idea which men are suitable friends. Mostly, it is a misguided pursuit of “chemistry” that leads the poor choosers astray. In other words, you invite the shi*heads into your life.”
Oh no, he didn’t stop there. He had to send me yet ANOTHER message.
“Furthermore, if a man uploaded many pics of himself with the women he had met and partied with, it would probably be a good bet that he is an insecure jerko*f trying to show us how worldly and popular he is.. The same might be said of a woman.. And neither are likely to attract the better people
That should give you some ideas why OKC is not working well for you.
And finally, blaming others for your own failures is a losers habit.. ”
Aww, I’m so crushed that he doesn’t like my profile and doesn’t want to date me. I mean, “Thanks, Dad” for all of the advice. It’s really unfortunate that my posting too many photos, with other men (gasp!) bothers him. (By the way, some of those photos were with Pacific Islander musicians that I support by attending their concerts, one was of a friend in Bali and HIS friends, and one of the photos was with one of the guys from work.) Even my travel photos, with no one in them, bother him! Apparently, my photos make him feel inadequate. That would seem to be HIS problem, not mine, wouldn’t one think? Besides, you guys have read all about those dating “adventures” from the early days of this blog. Feel free to visit his profile and send him a conciliatory message. Maybe he’ll send you a charming response, too!
Update: He’s now calling himself “TheFlagIsUp” and lists himself as being 63 from Modesto, California. Apparently, trying to be on the DL now.